Lets See How Gender Neutrality Goes

I began creating this blog to be about the socialization of children by toy advertisement. However as I viewed and learned more information on children’s toys, I realized that the advertising of children’s toys is not the main problem with how children are being socialized into traditional gender role believing individuals. Toy advertisement is a factor of this socialization yet it is the actual genderized toys that influence children to become aware of gender roles and manipulate them to follow these sexist roles. Thus I changed my blog to be about children’s genderized toys and how the toys, along with their advertisements, affect children’s everyday perspectives. 

Children may notice physical differences among boys and girls but they should not be influenced by toys to assume genders have to be different in all aspects. Some people may not realize how a simple toy could affect a child’s current view on their gender identity, so they allow children to play with the manipulating toys. Those affects, although may seem like regular playing games, would then leave children to grow into traditional gender roles as adults and prevent a gender equality society. How would we obtain gender equality if young generations do not learn about gender identities and equal roles as children? We must educate ourselves on this topic of children’s genderized toys, such as from the sources I have read and mentioned on this blog, to understand how impacted children are when it comes to toy influence. 

All the web sources and research articles have furthered my interest to finding out what makes toys genderized, how are they gendered through advertising, and how children react to these toys. Once I learned what and how toys are gendered, I focused on trying to find sources that were on children’s perspectives about gendered toys. I have mentioned how there are many children who are taught from birth about appropriate genderization and others that have no knowledge of this concept. I enjoyed sources that focused on the children who did not yet know about genderization because I think they are the individuals who we should learn from and be like. These children only view the toys' purpose to entertain them. 

This perspective children have of not acknowledging genderized characteristics of objects is a concept that can help the world reflect on the views of gender equality. Such as in Judith Warner's article on Time's website about Sam’s experience, a five year old boy who chose his pink shoes for his first day of preschool, has given the social media this concept of banishing genderization for the benefits of equality. Sam was excited about his new shoes but his mother was criticized for allowing her son to wear the shoes by arguing that they would “turn him gay,” (Warner). Although the shoes were pink, the actual reason Sam wanted the shoes were because they were zebra print and that was his favorite animal. Children like Sam, should be commended for overlooking the genderized characteristics of objects to be able to enjoy the overall object’s purpose – in Sam’s case, they are just shoes made of an animal.

The Lesson of the Boy in the Pink Ballet Flats

Although in Sam’s case it was not on toys, it still reflects on how genderized objects can influence people’s perspectives on one’s gender identity and roles. Without any objects being gender labeled, we would be better off since it would free us from judgment, criticism, and limitation of opportunities. If we want this change in our adulthood, we must realize the necessity for this change in childhood. Therefore these insights on children’s genderized toys would benefit the worlds view to accept gender neutrality and obtain gender equality for all ages.

References:
Warner, Judith. "The Lesson of the Boy in the Pink Ballet Flats." Times. Times.com, 14 Dec. 2012. Web. 07 Dec. 2014.